One of my two goals for WBM was to finish writing the rising action of my novel. The other? To avoid reading when I should be writing. If you’ve read past posts, you know I love books. I can’t imagine a writer not. But I think like anyone, especially when you feel stuck, it seems more inviting to get lost in someone else’s words rather than fighting a losing battle against your own. Continue reading
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Ah, Valentines day. It’s the day cupid supposedly shoots his arrow and we all find love. It’s a day when everyone has a decent excuse for a massive sugar high. It’s a day when all you need is love.
Don’t worry, I’m not going to get all lovey-lovey on you. At least not in the way you might expect. This post is for the love of books and the various types of love we find in them.
Here at WriteOwls, we are big believers in learning the craft of writing from other authors. If you’ve read our series Learn to Write by Reading, then you know we love to recommend books that have influenced us, or helped us become better writers.
For me the following books have had a profound effect on me in this regard:
Kids of Appetite, aka KOA (some romance, but it’s more about the love between the family you create)
The Serpent King (like KOA, some romance, but more about how deeply true friends can love each other while riding out the most unpleasant aspects of life)
Cloud Atlas (Love that transcends more than one lifetime)
The Cather in the Rye (Holden’s love for his sister and his desire to protect her from going over the edge is classic)
The Red Pencil (love that propels a family to survive)
5to1 (gradually learning to love someone and then allowing them to go on)
On Beauty (0ne of the complex love stories I’ve read in a long time)
Barkskins ( more a love note to a place rather than the people who inhabit it)
I could literally (haha) list 600 more books, but I won’t because I should be writing. (If you have an other recommendations, please share!)
Now it’s your turn. Think of all the books you’ve read where love, and not just romantic love, was illustrated so wonderfully. Think about the way the author effectively showed the love between characters (again, not necessarily romantic). Today, while you write, see if you can apply that to your own writing.
My goal for our Write by Midnight challenge has been to wake up early and get an extra thirty minutes of writing time a day. I am not naturally a morning person, so this has really been a challenge, but I’m happy to report that I’ve been able to write every morning for the past week. I feel like I need some sort of early bird pin to proudly display my achievement.
If you’re hoping to work in some early morning writing time, too, here are a few of the techniques that have made it work for me.
1. Tell people.
There’s no motivation like the shame of having to admit that you were a lazy slug who burrowed under the covers instead of getting up to accomplish the writing goal you have announced is so important to you. I told you on this blog, announced it to Twitter, and told the friends and family members I see every day. So I basically have to get up.
2. Remind yourself.
In the wee hours, when it’s still dark outside and my bed is so cozy, I often have no idea why I set my alarm so early. So I hit snooze without waking properly and then kick myself when I’m finally awake enough to remember, “Oh, yeah, I really want to finish my novel.” My solution? I simply title the alarm on my cell phone “Finish this draft by X date” or “It’s time to Write by Midnight.” That last one has been especially effective this month because it reintroduces the shame motivator of #1 (see above).
3. Go to bed on time.
Sleep deprivation is bad for you. If you’re going to get up earlier, you have to go to sleep earlier. You can get by on coffee and determination for a while, but eventually, you will burn out. We’re trying to establish a sustainable habit. So sustain yourself with adequate sleep. And write.
4. Use a gradual wakeup pre-alarm.
Five minutes before I actually want to get up, I set an alarm that plays soothing music. It’s fairly loud, so it wakes me up, but it’s soothing, so I don’t feel the need to turn it off, and I get to experience the lovely feeling of snuggling down under the covers and knowing it’s not time to get up yet. By the time my real alarm goes off, I’m awake enough to remember why I wanted to get up at this terrible hour to begin with, so I actually get up. There are also various apps that monitor your sleep and wake you at the best time, but this approach works for me.
In case you’re wondering, my musical selection is “Clair de Lune” by Claude Debussy. It’s starts soft but builds to a climax just as I’m needing to get up. It was also part of the soundtrack at the end of the movie Ocean’s 11, when they’ve successfully stolen millions and are basking in their accomplishment while gazing at the fountains of the Bellagio in Las Vegas. It’s nice to bask.
What are your tricks for waking up early to write?
It’s Day Two of the Write by Midnight challenge, and so far I’m off to a good start. My goal for the month is to incorporate thirty minutes of writing time into my mornings before the hectic day gets started. As a result, my challenge actually started on January 31 when I needed to get in bed thirty minutes earlier in order to avoid sleep deprivation. Remember, we’re creating sustainable habits here, not running a month-long marathon only to collapse at the end of it. As an habitual night owl, going to bed earlier is hard for me, but I made it in bed by 10:30. Success!
I was all geared up for a good night’s sleep followed by a productive writing session until midnight when the thumping of little feet running from a nightmare sounded down the hall. Wake up, offer comfort, go back to sleep. Until 4 a.m. when the thumping of little feet running from a nightmare sounded down the hall. Again. Sabotage!
I did not get a long and restful night’s sleep, but the peer pressure of knowing I’d have to confess how I did with my goals to all of you forced me out of bed anyway. Overall, I’m calling it a win. Now to do the same thing every day for the next month. Fingers crossed that tonight’s sleep will at least be uninterrupted.